Nishant & Vaishali's wedding
Day 1
Monday, February 2, 2026
Bijnor
Day 2
Tuesday, February 3, 2026
Bijnor
Day 3
Wednesday, February 4, 2026
Bijnor
About the hosts
Nishant & Vaishali's story
Our story is a beautiful blend of tradition and destiny. Introduced by our families, we quickly discovered that our shared values and mutual respect were the perfect foundation for a lifelong partnership. At 25 years old, we are both standing at an exciting threshold of our lives, ready to build a future together.
Nishant Chaudhary, an Associate at Portway International India Pvt, brings a dedicated and global perspective to our union. Dr. Vaishali Chaudhary, a committed physician, brings a heart of service and compassion. Together, we represent a balance of strength and care.
To our dear guests, marriage is the union of two souls and the merging of two families. We invite you to witness our vows on February 4th. Your blessings are the greatest gift we could ask for as we start this journey.
"A marriage is not just two people holding hands; it's two families holding hearts."
Join us as we celebrate love, heritage, and a brand-new chapter!
Day 1Monday, February 2, 2026Bijnor
Starting time (approximately): 10:00 AM
Venue and host contact details will be disclosed upon booking.
Tilak utasav
The Tilak is a symbol of honor and a "seal" on the marriage. In this ceremony, the male members of Vaishali’s family (usually her father and brothers) visit Nishant’s home to apply a vermillion mark (Tilak) on his forehead. This signifies that they have officially accepted him as their son-in-law.
The Puja: The ceremony usually begins with a small Ganesh Puja to remove all obstacles.
Application of Tilak: Vaishali’s brother or father will apply the Tilak on Nishant’s forehead using kumkum (vermillion) and grains of rice.
Gifts (Shagun): The bride's family will present Nishant with gifts, which often include sweets, fruits, clothes, and sometimes jewelry or a watch.
Exchange of Sweets: Once the ritual is complete, both families exchange sweets to celebrate the new bond.
Day 2Tuesday, February 3, 2026Bijnor
Starting time (approximately): 10:00 AM
Venue and host contact details will be disclosed upon booking.
Haldi,mehndi
1. Haldi: The Glow of Tradition
The Haldi ceremony is all about "Ubtan" (turmeric paste) to give the groom and bride a pre-wedding glow. It’s usually playful and a bit messy!
The Vibe: Joyful, intimate, and sunny.
What to Wear: * Color: Yellow is the unofficial uniform.
Style: Simple cotton Kurta-Pajama for men; light suits or sarees for women.
Pro-Tip: Don’t wear your most expensive clothes, as turmeric stains are permanent! Expect Nishant to be covered in yellow paste by his friends and cousins.
2. Mehndi: The Art of Celebration
While the Groom’s side celebrates this day with music and food.
The Vibe: Relaxed and creative.
What to Wear: * Colors: Greens, teals, or floral prints.
Style: Indo-western outfits or comfortable Kurtas.
Activity: Nishant, might get a small, symbolic Mehndi design on their palm.
Tip for Guests: This is a great time to mingle and get to know the extended family members before the main wedding rush.
Day 3Wednesday, February 4, 2026Bijnor
Starting time (approximately): 11:00 AM
Venue and host contact details will be disclosed upon booking.
Bhaat
The Bhaat ceremony is when Nishant’s maternal uncles (Mamas) come to his home bearing gifts and "sponsorship" for the wedding. Historically, it symbolizes the brother’s lifelong commitment to support his sister and her children during major life milestones
Presenting the Bhaat: The uncles present the Bhaat Patrika (an invitation/record) and the gifts. These usually include:
The wedding outfit for Nishant.
A special saree or outfit for Nishant's mother.
Jewelry, dry fruits, and sweets.
Cash gifts for the family.
The Blessing: The Mamas officially "clothe" the sister’s family in the new garments provided, signifying that they are taking care of the wedding expenses and honors.
Mandha
The Mandha (also known as Mandha Karai or Mandva) is a deeply spiritual and foundational ritual in a Chaudhary wedding. It is essentially the sanctification of the wedding venue and the invitation to the gods to reside in the home during the festivities
Ghudchadi
The Ghudchaddi ceremony is the final, high-energy ritual performed at Nishant's house before the Barat officially departs for Vaishali’s venue. It translates to "mounting the horse" and serves as the groom's grand send-off.
1. The Sehra Bandi Before Nishant can mount the horse, he must be fully prepared as a groom.
The Ritual: Nishant’s sisters-in-law or sisters perform an Aarti and apply a small amount of surma (kohl) to his eyes to protect him from the "evil eye."
The Turban: Nishant’s brother-in-law or elder male relatives tie the Sehra (a floral veil or decorative fringe) to his turban. This is a deeply symbolic act representing the groom's transition to a new stage of life.
2. Mounting the Horse
Once the Sehra is tied, Nishant is led outside to the decorated mare (Ghodi).
Feeding the Mare: Before Nishant mounts, his sisters usually feed the mare soaked lentils and grains. They also tie a sacred thread to the horse’s reins.
Bharat chadhaat
The Chadhat begins immediately after the Ghudchaddi (mounting the horse). Once Nishant is settled on the horse, the Band Baaja starts playing at full volume. This is the signal for all the friends and family to start dancing in front of the horse.
The Dance Procession
The "Chadhat" is essentially a moving dance floor.
The Friends' Role: This is where Nishant's friends take over. You are expected to dance in front of the horse for the entire duration of the walk (or at least until you reach the main road).
The Pace: The horse moves slowly, stopping every few minutes to allow for special dance performances by the cousins and friends.
The Music: Expect a mix of traditional brass band music and a mobile "DJ Truck" playing the latest Bollywood wedding hits.
