The betrothal ceremony, or Manasammatham, is a formal event in Kerala Christian culture that announces a couple's intention to marry: Event The bride's side typically organizes the event, which takes place in front of a priest or church father. Rituals The priest asks the couple for their consent to marry, and both families are present to confirm their acceptance. Exchange of rings While not originally part of the ceremony, the exchange of rings has become an important part of the betrothal. Reception The event is followed by a reception at the bride's home or in a large hall. Other important events in a Kerala Christian wedding include: Aachaarakalyanam: The bride's family visits the groom's family to set the wedding date. Wedding day rituals: The bride and groom perform rituals at their homes, including sthuthi cholluka (prayer) and gurudakshna (seeking blessings from elders). Minnukettu: The bride ties a thaali, or minnu, around her neck.