Anup & Rajashree's wedding

Day 1
Sunday, December 15, 2024
Tezpur
Day 2
Tuesday, December 17, 2024
Tezpur
About the hosts
Anup & Rajashree's story
In the heart of Assam, where the lush landscapes weave tales of enduring love, our journey unfolded amidst the bustling rhythms of university life. Our friendship blossomed into something deeper, something that neither of us had anticipated but both cherished. Post-graduation, we both started our careers in IT, navigating the challenges of distance and familial approval. The pandemic tested us, yet it fortified our bond as we stood together through uncertainty, emerging stronger than ever. We are overjoyed to share that we will be getting married amidst the lush beauty of Assam. In the close-knitted ceremony we'll celebrate the rich cultural heritage of Assam, the vibrant communities of Assamese and Bishnupriya Manipuri. Your presence would grace our celebration, adding joy and meaning to our most cherished day. With deepest sincerity, we invite you to share in this moment of love and unity, as we embark together on the next chapter of our lives.
Day 1Sunday, December 15, 2024Tezpur
Starting time (approximately): 8:00 AM
Venue and host contact details will be disclosed upon booking.
Juroon
The Juron ceremony is a joyful pre-wedding ritual that holds great cultural and emotional significance. It is an expression of goodwill, respect, and blessings for the new phase of life the couple is about to embark on. The groom's family will arrive at the bride's house with gifts such as Mekhela Chador, jewelry, cosmetics, sweets, and other auspicious items. During the ceremony, the groom's mother or a close female relative will present these gifts to the bride, symbolizing acceptance and blessings. A key moment will be the exchange of betel leaves and nuts, which represent respect and goodwill. The groom's mother may also apply a small amount of sindoor on the bride's forehead, signifying her formal acceptance into the groom's family. Elders from both families will bless the bride for a prosperous and happy married life. The ceremony will culminate in a joyful celebration where both families will share a meal and strengthen their bonds through conversation and shared moments.
Panitula (Holy Water) Ceremony
The ceremony will take place both at the bride's and grooms house, after Juron. During Pani Tula, both, groom’s mother as well as the bride's mother, go separately to a nearby water body, river or a sacred source for collecting Holy water for the ceremonial bath for bride and groom. They are accompanied by other female relatives who sing traditional wedding songs while this ceremony takes place.
Nuwoni (Haldi)Ceremony
The Nuwoni ceremony will be a joyous occasion, filled with traditional songs, dances, and the warmth of family and friends. A paste of turmeric, curd, and oil is prepared for the ceremony. This paste is believed to purify the skin and bring good luck to the couple. The elders of both families will bless the couple, invoking divine protection and prosperity for their married life. Traditional hymns and prayers will be chanted, seeking blessings from the deities.
Borjatri Aha or Bor Oha (known as Baraat)
Borjatri Aha or Bor Oha (commonly known as Baraat in other parts of India) is a significant and festive part of Assamese weddings, including the Bishnupriya Manipuri community. The groom, his family, and friends travel to the wedding venue. The procession is filled with music, dance, and joy. Traditional instruments, such as the Dhol (drum), Taal (cymbals), and Shehnai (wind instrument), will accompany the procession. The procession will be welcomed by the bride's family with aarti (a ceremonial greeting with light) and gifts. Various rituals will be performed to ward off evil and bless the couple.
Biya (The Wedding Ceremony)
The bride will be taken to the mandap by her maternal uncle and siblings. The groom will be seated at the stage in front of the mandap's holy fire set. The priest will chant mantras while the couple exchange garlands. Various rituals will then be performed according to Vedic traditions. The couple will take seven rounds around the sacred fire, chanting marriage vows that they will follow once they start their lives together.
Koina Bidai (Baraat Prasthan)
The bride bids adieu to all her family members during this ritual. There will some traditional rituals to be followed once the marriage gets over. The couple, along with family members, gets indulged in these fun-filled activities. The couple is given a warm welcome at the groom’s place.
Day 2Tuesday, December 17, 2024Tezpur
Starting time (approximately): 1:00 PM
Venue and host contact details will be disclosed upon booking.
Reception Party
After the main wedding ceremony and rituals have been completed, the reception will be hosted at a banquet hall. The couple will be dressed in traditional attire. Guests will be warmly welcomed with traditional Assamese hospitality. Cultural performances such as the lively Bihu dance will entertain the guests, along with occasional modern dance performances by family and friends. A sumptuous feast will be served. Musical entertainment, DJs, and at times, live bands, will create an enchanting ambiance, ensuring guests revel in the celebratory spirit.