Febin & Anju's wedding

Day 1
Tuesday, August 19, 2025
Ooty
Day 2
Wednesday, August 20, 2025
Ooty
About the hosts
Febin & Anju's story
Once upon a time, in a bustling city filled with chance encounters, two souls crossed paths. Febin and anju met at a coffee shop while waiting for our order. From that moment, a beautiful friendship blossomed, filled with laughter, adventures, and countless memories. As time went on, their bond deepened. They discovered a shared love for traveling, hiking, and trying out new recipes. Whether it was exploring new cities or cozying up at home with a good movie, we found joy in each other's company. As we embark on this new chapter of our lives, we would be honored to have you join us in celebrating our love. Your presence would mean the world to us as we say "I do" and begin our journey as a married couple. "Love is not about how many days, months, or years you have been together. Love is about how much you love each other every single day." We can’t wait to celebrate with you! With love, Febin & Anju
Day 1Tuesday, August 19, 2025Ooty
Starting time (approximately): 5:30 PM
Venue and host contact details will be disclosed upon booking.
Chandan charthal
Chandam Charthu, also known as Chantham Charthal, is a traditional pre-wedding ceremony in the Knanaya community of Kerala, India. The term "Chantham" signifies the conclusion of the groom's bachelor life, while "Charthu" means beautification. Historically, this ritual involved the groom receiving his first shave and haircut the day before the wedding. A local barber would ceremonially shave and cut the groom's hair after seeking approval from the assembled guests three times, emphasizing the community's esteemed status. Today, while the full shave is symbolic, the essence of the ceremony remains a significant cultural practice, marking the groom's transition into married life.
Day 2Wednesday, August 20, 2025Ooty
Starting time (approximately): 9:30 AM
Venue and host contact details will be disclosed upon booking.
Wedding ceremony
Wedding Ceremony: Church Wedding: The couple exchanges vows in a church, where the groom ties a thali (a sacred necklace) around the bride's neck, symbolizing their marital bond. Bar Mariam Chant: After the wedding mass, priests and congregation sing the "Bar Mariam," an ancient East Syriac chant celebrating Christ's life and the church's betrothal to Him.
Pre wedding ceremony
Post-Wedding Celebrations: Nada Villi: A jubilant procession where the newlyweds and guests sing and cheer as they travel from the church to the reception venue, marking the couple's journey into married life. Nellum Neerum (Welcome Blessing): At the reception, the groom's mother leads a blessing ceremony, welcoming the bride into the family with prayers and symbolic gestures. Vazhu Pidutham (Mother's Blessing): The bride's mother offers blessings to the couple, placing her hands crosswise on their heads, while all women present sing traditional wedding songs. These customs collectively uphold the Knanaya community's unique cultural and religious identity, emphasizing familial bonds and spiritual significance throughout the wedding process.