We get details of eachother from common relatives. At first we are not interested about eachother. One day I (groom) hear about her from one common friend. So I feel interested to know her verywell and I proposed to meet her through family for wedding purpose with mutual decision. And very first meeting we make decision to be partner for life because we found out that we are perfect for eachother. This all happened because of our Lovely Prabhu (deity).