A Maharashtrian engagement, known as Sakharpuda, is a traditional pre-wedding ceremony that marks the official beginning of a couple’s journey toward marriage. It is a joyous occasion where both families come together to bless the bride and groom. Rituals & Traditions 1. Ganesh Puja – The ceremony starts with prayers to Lord Ganesha for blessings and a smooth wedding journey. 2. Exchange of Gifts – The groom’s family presents the bride with a Sakharpuda (a cone-shaped packet of sugar), symbolizing the sweetness of their future relationship. She also receives sarees, jewelry, and other gifts. 3. Ring Exchange (optional) – Traditionally, Maharashtrians do not have a ring exchange, but modern engagements often include this ritual. 4. Official Announcement – Elders from both families announce the engagement and bless the couple with Akshata (unbroken rice grains) for prosperity. 5. Feast & Celebration – The ceremony concludes with a meal and celebrations with friends and relatives.

Halad Chadavane (Haldi Ceremony) A turmeric paste is applied to the bride and groom at their respective homes to purify and bless them. Friends and family often turn it into a fun, playful event.

Wedding Day Rituals: 1.Punyavachan & Seemant Poojan (Welcoming the Groom) The bride’s family welcomes the groom and his family with a small ritual. The groom’s feet are washed, and he is offered gifts. 2.Antarpat (Sacred Curtain & Mangalashtaka) A cloth (antarpat) is held between the bride and groom while sacred mantras (Mangalashtaka) are chanted. The curtain is then removed, and the couple exchanges garlands (Jaimala). 3.Kanyadan (Giving Away the Bride)The bride’s father places her hand in the groom’s hand, symbolizing his trust and blessings. The groom promises to take care of the bride forever. 4.Mangalsutra & Sindoor Ceremony The groom ties the Mangalsutra around the bride’s neck and applies Sindoor (vermillion) on her forehead, symbolizing their marital bond. 5.Saptapadi (Seven Sacred Steps) The couple takes seven steps around the sacred fire, each step representing a vow for a prosperous married life. 6.Karmasampati & Manpan