In an Indian Buddhist engagement, families of the bride and groom come together to formally announce the union. It begins with a small, respectful gathering where elders bless the couple. A simple exchange of rings or symbolic gifts may take place. Offerings to the Buddha, chanting of protective verses (Paritta), and lighting of lamps often mark the ceremony, seeking blessings for peace, harmony, and a happy life together. The focus remains on simplicity, mutual respect, and spiritual connection.

In a Maharashtrian wedding, the Haldi ceremony is a joyful and vibrant pre-wedding ritual. Known as Halad Chadavane, it usually takes place a day before the wedding. A paste made of turmeric, sandalwood, and rose water is applied to the bride and groom at their respective homes. Family members, especially women, apply the Haldi using mango leaves or fingers, starting from the feet upwards. It’s believed to purify the body, give glowing skin, and ward off evil. Traditional songs, laughter, and teasing create a fun and festive mood. Everyone dresses in yellow, and the atmosphere is filled with love and blessings. After the Haldi, the bride and groom are not allowed to step out until the wedding, as a symbol of protection. This ceremony blends tradition, emotion, and celebration, marking the start of a new life journey.

The Maharashtrian Sangeet is a joyful pre-wedding celebration filled with music, dance, and laughter. Though not originally part of traditional Maharashtrian weddings, it has become popular in modern celebrations. Held a day or two before the wedding, both families gather for an evening of cultural bonding. Women sing traditional ovya and bhondla songs, while others perform Lavani or Bollywood dances. The bride and groom often prepare special performances, adding excitement. The event may also include fun skits and games about the couple’s story. Everyone dresses in colorful ethnic attire, and the atmosphere is full of cheer. The Sangeet is more than entertainment—it brings families together, builds joyful memories, and sets the tone for the upcoming wedding.

A Maharashtrian Buddhist wedding is a simple, meaningful ceremony rooted in equality, love, and the teachings of Buddha and Dr. B.R. Ambedkar. The celebration usually begins with Buddha Vandana and chanting of Buddhist verses. There’s no horoscope matching or caste-based rituals. Instead of Kanyadaan, the couple takes equal vows of companionship, respect, and mutual support in front of the Buddha idol. The Panchsheel (Five Precepts) are often recited, symbolizing ethical living. The ceremony may take place in a Buddha Vihar, and is followed by a peaceful community meal. The wedding emphasizes simplicity, dignity, and unity—rejecting superstition and upholding Ambedkarite values. It’s more than a union of two people—it’s a commitment to a life of compassion, truth, and equality.