Showkat & shah's wedding
Day 1
Saturday, May 10, 2025
srinagar
Day 2
Sunday, May 11, 2025
srinagar
About the hosts
Showkat & shah's story
Hi everyone! We’re Shah and Shawn — two ordinary people who found something extraordinary in each other.
Shawn is a civil engineer who builds things that stand tall and last, while I’m a teacher who tries to shape little hearts and minds. We’re both in our early 30s and believe that life is about celebrating simple joys — coffee on a rainy day, sunsets on long drives, and now, this new chapter we’re about to begin.
A Note to Our Guests:
We’re incredibly grateful for the love and support we’ve received, and we would be honored to have you with us as we say "yes" to forever.
"Some souls just understand each other upon meeting, and ours have been dancing in sync ever since."
Your presence will mean the world to us. Let’s make memories together that we’ll cherish for a lifetime.
With love,
Shah and Shawn
Day 1Saturday, May 10, 2025srinagar
Starting time (approximately): 4:00 PM
Venue and host contact details will be disclosed upon booking.
Mehndiraat
In Kashmiri culture, Mehndiraat (also called Maenzraat) is a joyful pre-wedding event rich in tradition, music, and community bonding. The highlight of the evening is the henna ceremony, where the bride’s hands and feet are adorned with mehndi.This is accompanied by the singing of traditional Kashmiri songs called Wanvun.
The evening is filled with music and dance, featuring instruments like the Tumbakhnaer, Nott, Sarangi, and Harmonium.Guests enjoy authentic Kashmiri refreshments such as Kahwa (saffron tea) and Nun Chai (salty pink tea), served with local breads like Kulcha and Bakirkhani. These delicacies help sustain the energy and excitement of the evening.
Beyond its festive atmosphere, Mehndiraat holds deep cultural significance.
Day 2Sunday, May 11, 2025srinagar
Starting time (approximately): 1:00 AM
Venue and host contact details will be disclosed upon booking.
Baraat or masnandnishini
Masnandnishini or Baraat Day in Kashmiri Muslim weddings is a vibrant and emotional occasion filled with time-honored traditions blending faith, festivity, and family.
1.The Groom’s Arrival.
2. Nikah – The Marriage Ceremony
The Islamic marriage contract, known as the Nikah, is conducted by an imam or qazi, typically at the bride’s home or a nearby mosque. In the presence of witnesses from both families, the Mehr (mandatory bridal gift) is agreed upon and documented, officially binding the couple in matrimony.
3. Wazwan – The Wedding Feast
A highlight of Kashmiri weddings, Wazwan is a grand multi-course meal prepared with elaborate detail. Signature dishes like Rogan Josh, Rista, Gushtaba, Tabak Maaz, usually four per trami (large copper platter), reflecting the communal and celebratory spirit.
5. Exchange of Gifts
6. Rukhsati – Bride’s Departure
Once the ceremonies conclude, the bride says an emotional goodbye to her family in a ritual called Rukhsati.